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Partnerships for Hope and Service

 

Work Thoughts

 

Youth Action Forum in Action

 

Chicken Little or Stone Soup

 

Independence as Wealth

 

Changes in the 990 Form

 

Philanthropy Day

 

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Mission
It is the belief of Family & Youth that all individuals possess the ability to solve their own challenges and live full healthy lives when support is available. It is the mission of Family & Youth to provide affordable and professional support through programs and services dedicated to advocacy, counseling, and education for the people of Southwest Louisiana. Our effort and commitment to building family values will guarantee a stable and stronger community.

 

Past Issues

January 2008

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September 2006

May 2006

 

 


Independence as Wealth
by Danielle R. Caraway, MA, LPC, LMFT, Director of Autism Support Alliance

It is said that for money you can have everything, but you cannot. You can buy food, but not appetite; medicine, but not health; knowledge but not wisdom ... You can have the husk of everything for money, but not the kernel.  --Arne Garborg

 

Such a true statement!  So often, the greatest gifts we can give or receive cannot be purchased with money.  And so it goes with the families we work with through the Autism Support Alliance.  

 

Recent conversations I have had with the caregivers of some of the young adults in our program illustrate this point.  They have explained to me how valuable they feel the experience of our socialization groups has been for their young adult children. Upon entering our high school socialization group last year, one young man was too shy to make any eye contact with others, much less introduce himself.  After being in group for about a year, he is now making more eye contact, introducing himself and even initiating conversation with peers. School officials have noticed such a big change in him that he was chosen to report the weather forecast (his special interest) each morning over the school intercom.  Through being part of a group that guides and challenges it’s participants to incorporate life skills and enhance social skills, these young people have been able to make remarkable gains toward personal independence. 

 

Skills we take for granted, such as budgeting, studying effectively, or even passing a driving exam, can be tremendous challenges for young adults living with an autism spectrum disorder. After two failed attempts at college and a constant struggle with social anxiety, one of our young adult group members gave up being a chemist and decided to enter the job force. Unable to hold a job due to lack of interest in the chosen job, this young man was linked with our agency.  He is now enrolled full-time at McNeese State University and majoring in his special interest - chemistry.  This young man recently commented that he had “ruined the curve” for his class by passing all of his tests with extremely high A’s. He is much happier now because he is finally doing something he fully enjoys.  These types of accomplishments toward independent living are huge triumphs, and we all celebrate with them!  No amount of money can purchase for these individuals the skills they are learning that will carry them through the rest of their lives.  And we are proud to be a part of their learning process.

 

For more information on services offered through the Autism Support Alliance, contact us at 337-436-9533.